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Cheers! Welcome to Real Talk! 

This community is built on the belief that humans crave connectionnot perfection. We get real, raw, and vulnerable here. The only way to address fear, shame, and guilt, is by shining a light on the darkness where they exist. In other words…WE NEED TO TALK.

We have the conversations that most will avoid, but so desperately need to have. We may say some four-letter words. We see no purpose in judging. We embrace radical courage, and we turn heads. We make people think. We challenge the stories that no longer serve us, and we push through the awkward moments. We are open-minded and comfortable with differences. We understand that our mental, physical, and sexual sides are EQUALLY important because none of them exist in a vacuum.

Most importantly, we laugh…A LOT. We are ready and willing to be perfectly imperfect and are determined to find the beauty in all of it.

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I welcome and encourage anonymous submissions of questions, true stories, and fantasies. If you are submitting a story, whether true or fantasy, please write it out in as much detail as you can. Your submissions can help others, inspire others, and will most likely feel insanely liberating!

Want to hear my perspective on a question you have? Go ahead and ask – you never know, I just may answer it in my blog!

I value your privacy, big time. I will never reveal any identifying information, even if you do provide it.

PEOPLE ARE TALKING

“The real part of this is Nina and how she packages and presents information. She helps all who listen to her on a physical, emotional and even spiritual level. She’s remarkable and gets my highest recommendation.”

Greg, CT

“In a world of confusion, we seek clarity. At times of uncertainty, we hope for validation and understanding. When feeling lost and alone we reach for guidance and assistance. Nina has served as all those things and more!

As a “tough guy” I was always taught to keep things in, bury them deep down, figure things out and come out even tougher on the other side. With her humor, light-heartedness, and COMPLETELY judgment-free zone, I feel as though I’ve found a person that assures me that my wants and desires are completely normal, my struggles are also carried by countless other men, and that the change I seek in a better career, marriage and sex life is possible.

Nina is a godsend and the world could use more people like her. Beautiful inside and out, she’s taught me acceptance and to embrace possibility. Seek her out and LEVEL UP!”

Brian, FL

“Nina is an incredibly interesting speaker! I’m so glad I went to see her speak. What a freaking eye-opener! At first, I was nervous about the subject matter, but it was so genuinely and intelligently presented. Nina took what many consider taboo and discussed with humor and understanding. It was so nice to talk about things honestly and never feel judged. Women need this!”

Tracy, CT

“Nina is REAL, people! She is open, honest, informative and unflustered by any question you might have about sex, relationships, and intimacy. She does all this with a great deal of insight and a good dose of humor. Don’t be afraid to ask her anything.”

Judy, CT

“I think Nina is doing a tremendous service that will not only benefit women by teaching them to be comfortable with their sexuality, but it will help guys out, too. The fact that she is essentially standing up to stigmas and BS “rules” gives me great hope for more open and honest conversations about sex.”

Jason, CT

“Super real and down to earth!!”

Keana, NY

“Nina kicks ass and help empower people in and out of the bedroom. What she’s doing is essential for people to hear.”

Jessica, CT

“Nina is someone that really opens your eyes to things that you’re missing when it comes to sex with your partner. She is easy to talk to, understanding, but will also hold you accountable on the things you’re not doing. She’s definitely a breath of fresh air because there are not many professional people out there that you can comfortably have those types of conversations with. She’s helped my marriage in so many ways. 

As men, most of us are taught to be hard and not show emotion or express feelings. Nina taught me how expressing my feelings to my partner can only enhance my relationship, and she’s been absolutely right. She’s the best.”

Mike, FL

“She has secretly saved me…and probably my marriage.”

Errin, CT

“When I hear Nina speak, I feel more confident in my own sexuality. I feel empowered to discuss my needs and less shy and embarrassed about sex in general.”

Wendie, CT

“Nina makes me feel like I’m not a crazy nagging wife who wants to be pleasured in a certain way in bed. [She makes me feel like] I’m not an awful woman to have sexual fantasies that aren’t necessarily about my husband, and she makes it OK to voice what I want sexually out loud, and not to be ashamed of it.”

Krystal, CT

I LOVE testimonials! Feel free to submit yours below!